In your arms

I feel it in your arms..the feeling I want to last for long..but i know its all mine..it has become a part of my heart..of my life..of my soul..this connection that I share with you..

Beyond words, beyond arguments..where everything stops and there is only warmth..
in your arms..

In your arms..in your arms..

There is no thing in this world that can suffice for that feeling I share when I am lying besides you..when I hold your hands, I see that I know them from my past..as if you are connected to me with a bond..like a child to its mom in the womb..but something that is not physical..

Have you seen animals snuggling with each other, playing around..dont you sometimes see the peace that they feel in each others arms..that is what I have with you..

Its not magical, its very natural..so natural that there is a natural peace to it..that its serene and yet promising..what the world assures is promising, but its not serene..what its written in those books is serene , but not promising.. you offer me both the worlds merged into one.. serene and promising..I feel needless...I can keep on writing and writing on how I feel in your arms..my hands wont stop..coz they arent making an effort on their own, they are being directed by my heart..which in itself is effortless in describing the feeling of our togetherness..it just flows out of me..
All my possesssions can be said to be futile but there is something subtle yet valuable that I have got and that ,my soulmate, is the feeling that I share with you when I am lying in your arms..

Penning down the voice of your Heart

For few of the posts that I wrote in past, I did a lot of editing to make sure that they turn up well garnished from the top..but in doing so somewhere the essence was lost..

True creation is devoid of thoughts and analysis..It emanates from the heart..And one shouldn't try to change it..When you express yourself you shouldn't think of what is grammatically or syntactically right; what sounds better than the other. When you express what your heart feels, without restricting it in any form, it rises above those rules. You realize they aren't needed any more.

An expression of heart is always beautiful and appeals more(though the latter is not the intended purpose.)

I will make sure, I allow my heart to pour out its expressions effortlessly..For they heal, nourish and nurture; which the expressions of mind are devoid of...

Life is truly meant to be Magical...

An assuring and comforting shoulder like that of a friend.

A fulfilling kiss.

A serene and lightly arousing hug.

Looking into each others eyes and getting lost in them.

Falling in love.

Feeling peace around someone..just the presence of someone..

Just the hold of hands, giving you goosebumps..yet so serene and yet so romantic like ur first love.

A place where conversations are hold in the air of Love.

The feeling that when someone is with you, you have everything..you are complete and that nothing is missing. Life is magic.

So magical, so comforting...

That is how life is truly meant to be..

Unconditional Love

"There may be days when disagreements and disturbing emotions may come between us. There may be times when psychological or physical miles may lie between us. But I have given you the word of my commitment. I have set my life on a course. I will not go back on my word to you. So feel free to be yourself, to tell me of your negative and positive reactions, of your warm and cold feelings. I cannot always predict my reactions or guarantee my strength, but one thing I do know and I do want you to know: I will not reject you! I am committed to your growth and happiness.

 I will always love you."

~Unconditional Love, John Powell.

Relationships- the One Common Platform

Relationships are a Mirror to the Self- to all the matters of the Self viz. Health, Emotional Well being, Money, Sexuality and everything else; as I wrote in my previous article - The True Purpose of Relationships.

The "Your money, my money" arguments, the "You don't give me enough space" arguments are all Opportunities to knowing, that which you believe. If you are reading this blog you might well be trying to apply the Law of Attraction consciously in one or the other sphere of your Life. And relationships bring all of those spheres to ONE COMMON PLATFORM.

The journey with your partner is not just about you exploring him/her but its also about your Self Exploration; exploring the dimensions of your Life.

By the time we are in our 20s 0r 30s, we have already gone through a lot of Conditioning. By this Past Conditioning I mean the Belief System that has formed around our Life- either by our own experiences or by the Society.
For example, lets talk about how Relationships get affected by different individual beliefs of the partners in matters of lifestyle and money.

Julie and Matt are dating. Matt spends extravagantly on gifts that he buys often for Julie, he often plans how he could impress Julie by one thing or the other. That is his way of Showing his Love for her. He believes, it adds a spark in the eyes of her beloved.

But Julie, on the other hand, has a lesser importance for material gifts or things of a similar kind. She wants Matt to be by her side, give her time, Say it more often- that how special she is for him; that he loves her. She wants to see him around and though she is happy to see the material gifts, she gives them a secondary importance.

Julie says the three words more often, " I Love You..You are most dear to me." But that had never been Matt's way. 

And one day it comes out.

 Matt says, " I feel bad. You don't really do anything for me. I feel like I just Give and Never Receive."
Julie retorts back, "You never say you Love me..I don't feel special. You don't give me your time. I need your Love, not those Gifts. Do I never occupy your mind during the course of the Day? I feel alone. "

And that's the beginning of the argument. And the truth is that no one is to blame for. Julie has been brought in a family that wasn't financially abundant, but there was plenty of Love between the family members. The whole idea of showing love was Spending time together, care and concern.

Matt, on the other hand, was brought up in a financially well family , but with negligence on the part of the parents. They would not turn up to him in everyday life, to spend time together or so; but they would keep showing their love for their child by giving him assets and everything else he would ever be in need of. The whole idea of showing love was different.

And when these two differently conditioned people met-there was a clash in time.

So you see, there are just two different belief systems, two different ideas; nothing is right or wrong.
In a Spiritual Relationship, the partners seek to rise above these ideas. Transcend them. Become aware of the individual and the other's conditioning. That is also a big step towards Forgiveness.

This is what a relationship has to offer- it makes you become aware of your conditioning; your beliefs- if you are willing to pay attention. When you become aware of the individual Conditioning that you and your partner have, it begins to dissolve. 

If Julie and Matt become aware of it, their resentment will begin to dissolve and Love will emerge. And this Love that emerges from Understanding -is Unconditional, is pure and Divine.

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Relationships are your riches

Relationships are your riches. Most of us are now coming to the awareness that the most beautiful thing one can ever have is Love. Though still I believe most of us fail to understand their beauty and are busy in thinking of other worldly possessions while not looking at the most beautiful gift God has given them, their loved ones. Those people in your life- who love you and understand you are the best thing you can ever have. You cannot get anything better than that, you may earn loads and loads of money, you may receive numerous awards or lot of fame, you may buy a Lamborghini but you can never have anything better than the people who love you. And see how many of us are really aware of this? It is not bad to aspire for a great career with loads of wealth and other things but what good is it to forget your blessings. Be grateful for all the people in your life who love you and are with you, be grateful for their support and their care. This Christmas, I thank God for all my near ones, my family, my friends for they continue to instill the fragrance of love in my life. May God bless them...

Love Prayer for the Beloved

I am in Love with every cell of your body, with all your thoughts, all your actions, with all that you have to say, with all that feel but don't say, with all that is perfect, with all that seems imperfect, With your Mind, Body and Spirit.
I Love You.
I see Love in every feeling that passes between us- feeling of attachment, feeling of being alienated at times, feeling of need, feeling of being fed up with fights, feeling for staying again every single time. I Love you as a Whole. Every portion of You- speck by speck.
All that you are and will ever be...I Love You..